Saturday 3 November 2012

A girl's best friend...

Saturday Afternoon: It's Man-united vs Arsenal FC; this game is too depressing as I'm a Gooner for life! Just switched to something more girly, i.e. Samantha's Bridal, *sigh* the heart feels better. My team is already 2 points less...Let's leave it at that. So I let my mind wander a little bit...

BFF, diamonds, heels, diary...the list goes on. The often overlooked yet crucial thing every girl needs is a best friend . And not just one, but most or all of the above. Women are highly expressive emotional beings, who like to talk and be heard as well. We love to cry, to binge on that mouthwatering voluptuous Galito's chicken or ultra-creamy white forest cake- depending on the nature of the craving and time of the month; and we love expressing love to those we love. Anyway, there are those things that we cannot do without and are listed below:

>>B.F.F. -Also goes by the name 'best friend forever.' This is the girl(s) who will be there for you through thick and thin. She's seen you at your worst, knows you inside out, has your little secrets at heart and would fight for you if anyone did try to hurt you. We all need that friend we can count on, besides, friends are like chocolate chips in the cookies of life; they make life a whole lot sweeter and a little less harder. All the same, instead of looking for a bff or complaining that people are just not genuine enough these days, be the friend.

>>Diamonds - Have been said to be a girl's best friend, for over hundreds of years now. And for sure they are. Of course the term 'diamonds' is an umbrella term for those shiny pieces of stone that we adorn on our gorgeous bodies every once in a while. Different women have different preferences, some like silver, others like myself love pearls (hint), and others like gold. These are the tiny but precious commodities that highlight our God-given beauty. Ever noticed how your self-esteem gets boosted once you get these on? Tip to the guys...invest in diamonds and trust me, she'll never forget you. I insist on the term 'invest' because cheap is expensive. Enough said.

>>Heels - By the way, at least Arsenal have caught on with one goal. Joy! As I was saying, heels are the one commodity in the history of mankind that have always added a touch of class, elegance and sex appeal to every woman that wore them. HOWEVER, and this I cannot overemphasize. If you can't walk in them, please please pleeease! do yourself a big favor and just leave them at home. The sore sight that hits my eyes every time I see a sister struggling to move from point A to point B as if she's walking on egg-shells, sadly has become an all too common phenomenon in our society today. Nevertheless, heels are beautiful and are reserved for special occasions. Somehow whenever some of us feel depressed, the instant remedy is shopping.For heels. And this cure has proven a 99.9% success rate.

>>Diary - If you're an avid writer like yours truly, then a diary is not just a book with little sheets of paper. It's a place you can freely express your innermost thoughts, utter words you wouldn't dare mouth in public and simply be yourself, especially when you don't really wanna talk to anybody. Shame on people who read diaries that belong to others without permission, it's just plain rude and disrespectful. However, I know people who prefer to express themselves through art, songwriting, etc. So it doesn't really have to be a diary as such.

These are just some of the little things that makes us girls tick, without which life would be a whole lot boring. Can you think of any other?



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1 comment:

  1. Great post,I agree with u completely Diamonds,heels,my diary are my BFF too
    But you forgot to add handbags....i love shopping for handbags/clutches...they r my shoppin therapy:)

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